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by Dr. Dana Iyer on July 22nd, 2013
Have you had the occasion to clap with one hand in the air, with the other tucked in your lap? I don’t suppose most of us have, but imagine if you did. It wouldn’t surprise any of us when our ears would be assaulted with a deafening silence, or a whoosh at best. Aren’t relationships similar? Doesn’t it take two hands, two people, to create the symphony or the cacophony that ensues after such encounters? What can we learn about ourselves from the kind of love we co-author and inscribe in indelible ink on our heart?
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